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Paus Fransiskus dan anak autis 2

Catatan Redaksi:

Bapak Uskup Diosis Purwokerto di Jawa Tengah Mgr. Julianus Sunarka membuat kompilasi laporan berita tentang tersentuhnya ribuan orang ketika menyaksikan Paus Fransiskus memeluk hangat seorang bocah penderita kelumpuhan otak bernama Dominic. Peristiwa ini terjadi sesaat setelah Paus Fransiskus memimpin Misa Minggu Paska di Lapangan Santo Petrus di Vatikan.

Ketika menaiki papamobile mengelilingi Lapangan Santo Petrus itulah, seorang peziarah menyodorkan anaknya untuk kemudian bisa dipeluk Sri Paus.

Dan catatan di bawah ini adalah berita yang mengisahkan betapa orangtua bocah penderita lumpuh otak ini tersentuh hatinya dan belajar tentang apa arti cinta kasih melalui peristiwa tersebut.


A Rhode Island couple says they were speechless and moved to tears when Pope Francis hugged and kissed their 8-year-old son in St. Peter’s Square on Easter Sunday.

Paul and Christina Gondreau of Johnston and their five children attended Easter Mass at the Vatican. The pope cradled their son, Dominic, who has cerebral palsy.

Videos and photos of the pontiff standing in the “popemobile” and holding Dominic were transmitted worldwide. Pope Francis also hugged and kissed other children as he greeted the crowd after Mass.

Paul Gondreau is a theology professor at Providence College and is teaching this semester in Rome.

A story on the Providence College website says Paul Gondreau called the moment “an incredibly moving encounter.” He says his son teaches him daily lessons about how to love.


Paus Fransiskus mencium kening bayi

SMALL acts with great love. Mother Teresa was fond of saying.


Yesterday, Pope Francis bestowed an extraordinary Easter blessing upon my family when he performed such an act in embracing my son, Dominic, who has cerebral palsy (kelumpuhan otak). The embrace occurred when the Pope spied my son while touring the Square, packed with a quarter million pilgrims, in the pope mobile after Mass. This tender moment, an encounter of a modern Francis with a modern Dominic (as most know, tradition holds that St. Francis and St. Dominic enjoyed an historic encounter), moved not only my family (we were all moved to tears), not only those in the immediate vicinity (many of whom were also brought to tears by it), not only by thousands who were watching on the big screens in the Square, but by the entire world.


Images of this embrace quickly went viral, and by Easter Sunday afternoon it was the lead picture on the Drudge Report, with the caption, Change Hatred into Love (a paraphrase of Pope Francis Urbi et Orbi message that followed shortly thereafter), where it remains even as I write this.


Fox News, NBC Nightly News, ABC Nightly News, and CNN all showed clips of it.


Lead pictures of it were found in Le Figaro, the New York PostThe Wall Street Journal, the Philadelphia Inquirerinter alia.


It is often difficult to try to express to people who do not have special needs children what kind of untold sacrifices are demanded of us each and every day. And as for Dominic, he has already shared in Christ’s Cross more than I have throughout my entire life multiplied a thousand times over.


What is the purpose in all this, I ask? Furthermore, I often tend to see my relationship with Dominic in a one-sided manner. Yes, he suffers more than me, but its constantly ME who must help HIM. Which is how our culture often looks upon the disabled: as weak, needy individuals who depend so much upon others, and who contribute little, if anything, to those around them.


Pope Francis embrace of my son yesterday turns this logic completely on its head and, in its own small yet powerful way, shows once again how the wisdom of the Cross confounds human wisdom. Why is the whole world so moved by images of this embrace?


A woman in the Square, moved to tears by the embrace, perhaps answered it best when she to my wife afterward, You know, your son is here to show people how to love. To show people how to love. 


This remark hit my wife as a gentle heaven-sent confirmation of what she has long suspected: that Dominic’s special vocation in the world is to move people to love, to show people how to love. We human beings are made to love, and we depend upon examples to show us how to do this.


But how can a disabled person show us how to love in a way that only a disabled person can?


Because the Cross of Christ is sweet and is of a higher order. Christ’s resurrection from the Cross proclaims that the love he offers us, the love that we, in our turn, are to show others, is the REAL reason he endured the Cross in the first place. Our stony hearts are transformed into this Christ-like love, and thereby empowered to change hatred into love, only through the Cross.


And no one shares in the Cross more intimately than the disabled. And so the disabled become our models and our inspiration. Yes, I give much to my son, Dominic. But he gives me more, WAY more. I help him stand and walk, but he shows me how to love. I feed him, but he shows me how to love. I bring him to physical therapy, but he shows me how to love. I stretch his muscles and joke around with him, but he shows me how to love. I lift him in and out of his chair, I wheel him all over the place, but he shows me how to love. I give up my time, so much time, for him, but he shows me how to love.


This lesson, to repeat, confounds the wisdom of the world. Heck, it confounds me when I, as his parent, so often fail to see my son’s condition for what it is. The lesson my disabled son gives stands as a powerful testament to the dignity and infinite value of every human person, especially of those the world deems the weakest and most useless.


Through their sharing in the folly of the  Cross, the disabled are, in truth, the most powerful and the most productive among us.


One more thing. Pope Francis embrace of my son, Dominic, indicates that we should not interpret the new Pontiff’s expressed devotion to the poor, already a cornerstone of his pontificate, in facile, purely material (let alone political) categories. His Easter embrace of my son stands out as a compelling witness to the kind of poverty that he urges us to adopt, the poverty that he pointed to in the opening line of his Urbi et Orbi message yesterday: I  would like [the message of Christ’s resurrection] to go out to every house and every family, especially where the suffering is greatest Parents of disabled children, stand up and find solace and encouragement in these simple yet profound words.




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